Give Yourself a Gratitude Reboot!

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Give Yourself a Gratitude Reboot!

With the New Year just days away, instead of resolving to change our bad habits – eat less, exercise more and stop stressing out, we suggest a gratitude makeover.

It turns out that by integrating gratitude into your every day you actually will be healthier, more deeply spiritual and lead a more abundant life. And you will be so much happier! Consider this about grateful people:

  • Grateful people have 10 percent fewer stress-related illnesses.
  • They are more physically fit.
  • Their blood pressure is lower by 12 percent.
  • Every 10 years you practice gratitude adds five years to your life.

How do you reboot your life with gratitude?  We offer these 3 ways grateful people we talked to for this book did exactly that. We’re inspired by their practices and hope you will find them transforming too.

  1. Falling Asleep, Gratefully.

Before bed each night, Holly takes time to review her day and to review the gifts she has received. It’s a practice she started to stave off the insomnia and middle-of-the-night awakenings when she couldn’t get herself back to sleep. Instead of tossing and turning, she starts with the letter, “A” and thinks of something she is grateful for. To do this, proceed through the alphabet with “B,” “C,” etc. “Regardless of our evaluation of the day – good, bad, mediocre – we can call forth the blessings that were present. This practice transforms our consciousness as it reveals at the heart of our lives,” according to the DailyOm.com.

2. Feel the Gratitude Burn.

Try incorporating gratitude as a first step in an exercise program. While you are lacing up your running shoes for a trip to the gym or to ride your bike, or head to a spin class, give thanks for your feet, your legs, the tendons that connect them, and the bones that give them structure. Thank yourself for taking care of your body, and acknowledging that saying “thanks” in a form of exercise too – one that has just as many health dividends as your workout!

3. Getting to the Soul of Your Gratitude.

Bring to mind a time when you felt very grateful. You may have received good news about a friend or family member, or perhaps you were surprised by a wonderful gift from someone you care about. Relive that experience as if it is happening now. Notice feelings and physical sensations as you vividly recall this experience of gratitude. Experience this from your head to your toes for two to four minutes, or as long as you would like. Then let go of this memory, but continue to relax into the positive sensations that feeling grateful evokes in you. At various points throughout every day, take a minute or two to bring this experience into your awareness. This will help you have many bright moments on the days you do this practice.

Happy New Year! We hope you will draw inspiration from these simple gratitude practices and find 2015 filled with blessings!

The Meaning of Life

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Paku PakuWe love to collect new ideas that come to us from readers on what seems like a weekly basis.

We received several months’ worth of ideas from a  radio host when she interviewed us on her Energy Awareness Radio show. T Love, owner of Quantum Wellness Center in Andover Township, New Jersey is an accomplished energy therapist, certified sound therapist, and applied positive psychology practitioner as well as an international keynote speaker and a contributing editor for various magazines.

T Love shared some of her grateful living innovations. A few highlights: A “Gratitude Challenge” scholarship endowment fundraiser for the Sussex County, NJ Chamber of Commerce where T Love serves on the Board of Trustees, co-chairs the Wellness Committee, and is a member of the Women in Business Committee. The participants were asked to pen thank you notes on a daily, weekly or monthly basis throughout the year. “All notes must be handwritten, include the words thank you, and specify why the recipient is being thanked,” she told us. “Part of this challenge is to think, feel and take the time to write the note. Post-it notes count too: ‘Thank you, Irving. I couldn’t have completed the proposal without your help. – Eugene’.”

Participants were asked to pay a one-time fee based upon their chosen challenge. “As an added incentive, each participant was entered into a drawing as many times as the notes in the challenge they took on,” she explained. “For instance, if someone opted for the one-note-a-month challenge they had 12 chances to win and if someone chose the one-note-a-day challenge, they had 365 chances to win!”

This is the perfect example of a win-win for all concerned – a “fun-raiser” at its best: educating members about the benefits of gratitude, raising funds for children in need, and providing a year’s worth of themes for the organization to rally around.

She told us another story – a very powerful story – about speaking to children on the topic of gratitude at an event sponsored by the non-profit group Pass It Along. When the children, ages 13 – 19 entered the room they had no idea what she was going to speak about. She told them she was there to tell them the secret of life. She asked if they knew what it was. Lots of great answers poured forth: marriage, love, sympathy, empathy, joy, happiness, etc.

Then she told them what it was: GRATITUDE.

She gave examples they could relate to, did a meditation, and demonstrated how to use the Paku Paku or Fortune Teller (photo above). The next night she got a call from the president of Pass It Along who told her that hers was the most popular and liked workshop.

According to T Love, “I was so grateful to have done those workshops. I didn’t know how it would go over and I was so unsure afterward. Somehow though, the kids GOT it.” We love the idea of T Love’s Paku Paku and her Gratitude Challenge for businesspeople.

If you would like more information about making your own Fortune Teller, leave a comment below. Or let us know about any other ways you have taught the concept of gratitude to children. You can listen to our interview on her radio show here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/energyawareness/2014/12/03/the-grateful-life-the-secret-to-happiness-and-the-science-of-contentment Thank you T Love!